GCS,
You've sparked my curiosity.

Just what was she lying about?

Funny you should say she was a pharmacist! Sounds simular to a lady I dated. About the time things started to get serious I got a call from my bank congratulating me on my up coming nuptials. Only thing is I hadn't proposed and asked what she ment. Stated a young lady came into the bank and introduced herself as my fiinace and wanted access to my bank accountd. Seems she had my checking account # and wanted to know what my balance was. Fortunately they told here I had to sign some papers allowing her access to my accounts. I was running a construction company and had a fair amount in my account but I know she had much more money than I did. Broke it off that afternoon as that was just one of many things she tried to pull on me. She was one crazy wak-a-doodle! Was told shortly afterwards by a friend that "If it flys, floats or flirts, it's cheaper to rent!"

I know one that took a church for about 250000 pretended she had pancreatic cancer, she had kids at home to boot, and I know the couple that really took care of her and even went to the doctor with her but didn’t go into the exam room and she fooled everyone until the doctor caught on to what was happening and reported her to DHS for fear she would hurt the kids to get more money.

I keep reminding myself most are older on this form.


Todays modern woman has been told since birth they don't need a man that they are the prize. They sleep around like crazy often having more partners by the time they finish highschool than 59 year old woman.

They bounce from man to man through their 20 about 30 start asking where the good men are. That gets worse at 35 to 40.

Ask a girl in her 20s what here requirements are . It will be something like over 6' making 6 figures ECT.

The average man is 5'9" and 100,000k is not something many make let along young men.

Men go up in value as they age. The become financially stable and experienced.

Women go down in value. They become less fertile and have more baggage. There is no value in getting married today for a man. Over 50% end in divorce and over 70% of those are the woman doing that. Loose half hour stuff, kids retirement ECT.. what's in if for a man today.

The internet is full of women in their 30s and up talking about wanting a husband. But listen to what they say and break it down. They want to be taken care of aka the benefits of being married but have no interest in doing any of the work. . They never say they have an interest in being a wife.


The more I see the more I'm worried about my boys finding a wife quality woman. I'm raising husband quality young men anh hope they can find a like minded Christ focused woman to become their wife.

I'm thinking about telling them to ask for a prenup when that time comes because I'm working myself in the ground laying groundwork and a good foundation for them and don't want some women coming along and walking off with half of it. If they won't well either siblings that do will get a bigger share. That or if the trust the farm is in protects it is something Im going to have to look into.


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Smart phones and tablets are a ruin, I think the parents are most to blame.

Instant gratification via social media

Parents are too busy on their phones , rather than parenting. Kids aren’t learning the basics.
Just watch our April memes thread and how many views it gets. Phones/memes/reels are an addiction just as bad as any drug!

Mom used to call for us to come inside when it was dinnertime. Now gotta beg kids to get outside.

A good law in Iowa is if you inherited something the spouse can’t get it in the divorce, it stops a lot of gold digging.

The rest find out on the Maury Povich show.

Live alone and practice abstinence? No more problemz

Saw a statistic the other day where 90% of the women are going after the same 10% of the men. And. Ankot figure out why Chad and Tyrone won’t commit.

The women are all chasing the same guy. Looking for the three 6’s.

I've said and agree with much of what you said but there are good women out there. We volunteered at a Kids Rodeo Bible Camp and there were some young ladies there that had a heart for the lord and were volunteering (or being paid a small amount) to teach kids. These girls were hard working, they had a lot of offer in a relationship (Judging by brief meetings/discussions). Many young men are not a prize, they watch to much Porn, play to many Video Games, have few skills and work minimally. Women don't want a large man child and that's what to many men are. Even in the outdoors, I have friends who spend to much on guns, fishing or hunting trips to the point it negatively effects their family imo, wife has to work a full time job with kids in daycare because guys want to fish and hunt all the time and have the toys to go along with it.

Men and women have it rough right now, best advice I can give after going through one heckuva mess is go to church, find a spouse who has similar beliefs and work ethic and I'll add its absolutely fair to judge someone based on their family, mental health issues are genetic and can pop up in the future.

I have been married 54 1/2 years. Knew the bride for several weeks before the ceremony. I guess you never know.

So, if she gets half of all my stuff, now; she probably deserves it.

Crazy times we live in now, people are crazy.
Male's and female's.
Glad I was able to find a good wife. It's nice to just live simple.
I never liked high life style girls.

Guess I just don't see the difference. The number of people I know that married, divorced, cheated, drinking, drugs, abuse, etc., etc., etc., I could just never figure out how and why people fall for it all, just blind I guess, see what we want and not what is real. Different times but the same type of crazy, worthless, people around. Male or female. I am 61 still shake my head. I am not diminishing your son's heartbreak, mine went through it as well, a similar situation. Tried to tell him.

All women are crazy, told my boy to just find the one with the amount of crazy they can put up with. One of my sons was bringing a different girl over every weekend. This went on the first few months of his Senior year. One weekend this young lady walked through the door and again the next weekend. My wife and I looked at each other thinking this one must be special. The next Friday Brennan brought her for dinner and stated she wanted to go duck hunting with us the next morning and she has her own waders and gun, did I care if she tagged along?
I told my wife after the hunt that she was the one to tame that boy, lol!
2017 they married. 2021 they gave us our first grandchild. 2024 they’re still together and raising that grand baby the same way I raised my son. Never had a daughter, but I dang sure do now.

Tell your son to find him a country gal that ain’t afraid to get her hands dirty and still be a lady.

So what did she do ?

First thing,find out if they can skin good.
If they can then everything else is likely good.

Yes she's a real Pharmacist,
The lies were about how she loved how my son supports his sister, they share the house, reality , wanted her gone, one of her please come back statements was she'd give my daughter $5,000, and 500 a month to leave... said she'd give my son all her savings if he'd love her again,...She loved all the friends they have, reality, hated them,and was manipulating them out of their lives, said she'd find him a friend if he wanted.Also accused him of sleeping with my daughters friend and a woman that plays online games with him that he never actually met...
Loved the pets, and wanted her own puppy, reality, hated them and said it was disgusting to have animals in the house.
I could go on, needles to say nothing could be trusted.
Like I said, she acted like the sweetest thing since sugar, but had a soul of vinegar...

Appreciate y'all listening to this cautionary tale, glad to keep you entertained,

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Pharmacist....Hmm. Do you think that maybe she's been sampling the goods for some time?

She sounds nuttier than squirrel poop. Would even "find him a friend if he wanted". Now that would be interesting to watch.