Re: Single again?
[Re: nvwrangler]
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05/09/22 03:44 PM
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Best of luck bud, hope it works out. I've been married 27 years and still don't have it figured out
Let me sugar coat this
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Re: Single again?
[Re: Leftlane]
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05/09/22 03:49 PM
05/09/22 03:49 PM
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Yes sir
"Callie's little brother"
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With Leftlane it will only b one night...... weeks top and u probably won't even remember her name. Ouch, I should prolly defend myself but maybe I will let it slide this one time LOL.
Jeb- you're talkin to the wrong man, if you want to know what girls are all about...I knew that would get u to login friend
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Re: Single again?
[Re: nvwrangler]
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05/09/22 03:59 PM
05/09/22 03:59 PM
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This makes me appreciate living alone even more! I hope you figure it out and do whatever makes you happy. No one deserves to be miserable in life.
I have nothing clever to put here.
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Re: Single again?
[Re: nvwrangler]
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05/09/22 04:36 PM
05/09/22 04:36 PM
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yotetrapper30
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So they came home at 5 on Saturday and that was when they told you that they were going back again that night and you were mad because they told you instead of asking you? So you made your don't let me get in your way comment? I'm sure that's what she's mad about.
She's probably looking at it like this.... her daughter lives a long ways away and so when she does come to town she wants to spend as much time doing things with her that her daughter enjoys doing. It sounds like your mother lives close, so she probably feels it's more important to spend time with the out of town daughter. PLUS you said you tried to make friends with the daughter but she's so different from you that you find it hard. Well, even if you try to hide that I'm sure your girlfriend senses it and probably the daughter too. So your girlfriend prefers to spend time with her daughter without you. Now I'm NOT saying that's right. Your girlfriend, imo, is in the wrong there and whether her daughter likes it or not she should do what's needed to include you into these family days. However, if the daughter is an entitled democrat, I'm not sure why you'd WANT to be included. If it were me I'd be glad to let them spend their time alone while I did something I enjoyed like working on mom's garden. But, if being included is important to you, then you need to tell your girlfriend that. Tell her it makes you feel unwanted when they take off all day without you and that you want to spend time with them. Say that you know her daughter and you don't always see eye to eye on things, but that you know her daughter is an important part of her life and that you want to be involved with that. Tell her you went to your moms because you didn't want to be sitting home alone all day on Saturday.
The OTHER possibility of why she could be mad, is that you weren't home when they got home on Saturday. She got home, and like her entitled daughter, felt that you should be there waiting on them with bated breath. If THAT's why she's mad I have no advice because if that's the case she feels it's fine to be gone however long without letting you know when they'll be back and just expects you to be there waiting whenever she decides to. If that's the case, I'd just tell her she's gonna have to be mad until she gets glad again because you'll be darned if you'll cancel your life until she gets around to entering back into it.
So that's my $0.02 of womanly opinion, lol.
~~Proud Ultra MAGA~~
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Re: Single again?
[Re: yotetrapper30]
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05/09/22 04:51 PM
05/09/22 04:51 PM
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Savell
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So they came home at 5 on Saturday and that was when they told you that they were going back again that night and you were mad because they told you instead of asking you? So you made your don't let me get in your way comment? I'm sure that's what she's mad about.
She's probably looking at it like this.... her daughter lives a long ways away and so when she does come to town she wants to spend as much time doing things with her that her daughter enjoys doing. It sounds like your mother lives close, so she probably feels it's more important to spend time with the out of town daughter. PLUS you said you tried to make friends with the daughter but she's so different from you that you find it hard. Well, even if you try to hide that I'm sure your girlfriend senses it and probably the daughter too. So your girlfriend prefers to spend time with her daughter without you. Now I'm NOT saying that's right. Your girlfriend, imo, is in the wrong there and whether her daughter likes it or not she should do what's needed to include you into these family days. However, if the daughter is an entitled democrat, I'm not sure why you'd WANT to be included. If it were me I'd be glad to let them spend their time alone while I did something I enjoyed like working on mom's garden. But, if being included is important to you, then you need to tell your girlfriend that. Tell her it makes you feel unwanted when they take off all day without you and that you want to spend time with them. Say that you know her daughter and you don't always see eye to eye on things, but that you know her daughter is an important part of her life and that you want to be involved with that. Tell her you went to your moms because you didn't want to be sitting home alone all day on Saturday.
The OTHER possibility of why she could be mad, is that you weren't home when they got home on Saturday. She got home, and like her entitled daughter, felt that you should be there waiting on them with bated breath. If THAT's why she's mad I have no advice because if that's the case she feels it's fine to be gone however long without letting you know when they'll be back and just expects you to be there waiting whenever she decides to. If that's the case, I'd just tell her she's gonna have to be mad until she gets glad again because you'll be darned if you'll cancel your life until she gets around to entering back into it.
So that's my $0.02 of womanly opinion, lol. ... more terrible advice as usual .. ... what you want to do is bust into the room wearing nothing but boots ( spurs on ) and a 2 x wool Stetson carrying a pigin string in your right hand .. then tell her “you understand what’s about to happen here? .... you understand why?” .... you got to take charge of the relationship..can’t have 2 trail bosses in the same bunkhouse
Insert profound nonsense here
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Re: Single again?
[Re: nvwrangler]
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05/09/22 04:54 PM
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Posts: 10,197 Marion Kansas
Yes sir
"Callie's little brother"
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We were posting at same time..... great timing.... I'll add sound advice.
Last edited by Yes sir; 05/09/22 04:56 PM.
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Re: Single again?
[Re: Savell]
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05/09/22 05:13 PM
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Posts: 10,809 Philippines, s.e. asia,ohio
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So they came home at 5 on Saturday and that was when they told you that they were going back again that night and you were mad because they told you instead of asking you? So you made your don't let me get in your way comment? I'm sure that's what she's mad about.
She's probably looking at it like this.... her daughter lives a long ways away and so when she does come to town she wants to spend as much time doing things with her that her daughter enjoys doing. It sounds like your mother lives close, so she probably feels it's more important to spend time with the out of town daughter. PLUS you said you tried to make friends with the daughter but she's so different from you that you find it hard. Well, even if you try to hide that I'm sure your girlfriend senses it and probably the daughter too. So your girlfriend prefers to spend time with her daughter without you. Now I'm NOT saying that's right. Your girlfriend, imo, is in the wrong there and whether her daughter likes it or not she should do what's needed to include you into these family days. However, if the daughter is an entitled democrat, I'm not sure why you'd WANT to be included. If it were me I'd be glad to let them spend their time alone while I did something I enjoyed like working on mom's garden. But, if being included is important to you, then you need to tell your girlfriend that. Tell her it makes you feel unwanted when they take off all day without you and that you want to spend time with them. Say that you know her daughter and you don't always see eye to eye on things, but that you know her daughter is an important part of her life and that you want to be involved with that. Tell her you went to your moms because you didn't want to be sitting home alone all day on Saturday.
The OTHER possibility of why she could be mad, is that you weren't home when they got home on Saturday. She got home, and like her entitled daughter, felt that you should be there waiting on them with bated breath. If THAT's why she's mad I have no advice because if that's the case she feels it's fine to be gone however long without letting you know when they'll be back and just expects you to be there waiting whenever she decides to. If that's the case, I'd just tell her she's gonna have to be mad until she gets glad again because you'll be darned if you'll cancel your life until she gets around to entering back into it.
So that's my $0.02 of womanly opinion, lol. ... more terrible advice as usual .. ... what you want to do is bust into the room wearing nothing but boots ( spurs on ) and a 2 x wool Stetson carrying a pigin string in your right hand .. then tell her “you understand what’s about to happen here? .... you understand why?” .... you got to take charge of the relationship..can’t have 2 trail bosses in the same bunkhouse LOL
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Re: Single again?
[Re: nvwrangler]
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05/09/22 05:24 PM
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Nessmuck
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Instead of a castor mound...change it up ,with a piece of Poplar ...she will come crawling back for fresh bait
It is better to die on your feet than to live on your knees.
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Re: Single again?
[Re: nvwrangler]
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05/09/22 06:01 PM
05/09/22 06:01 PM
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danny clifton
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Lifes to short to fight fuss and argue. Try Savells plan. If she is still moody time to get a new dance partner.
Those who would give up essential liberty, to purchase a little temporary safety, deserve neither liberty nor safety. Benjamin Franklin (1706-1790)
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