Mom goign to hospice

My mother had surgery in December and had several complications after. Was in and out of ICU for 2 months, and now on a vent and will never come off. Shes confused, agitated and in pain constantly. We have very difficultly decided to put her in hospice this weekend and remove the vent. She would never have wanted to live in a box unable to move, walk, talk, or do the things she enjoys.

This is the hardest thing I feel I have ever gone through, and I ask for your prayers for my family and I. I want you all to think about giving a written directive to your family so they dont have to choose as we did. its tearing us all to pieces inside. Please please write a directive for your loved ones.

Thanks Mike

God Bless, Lost Mom in hospice back in 2017...You & your family are in our prayers.

And great advice on the written directive.

I do know the difficulty you have gone through. It is heart rending. We had to make that decision a few years back, and really struggled afterward. While going through her belongings later, we found a sheet of note paper that spelled out that she would never want to be left in that position and hoped that if she were, we would be merciful and take her off life support. That was a blessing to us. May you make peace with your decision and may she go in peace. Prayers for you.

We have Hospice services in my area. Our system may differ from your services.

My mother had medical staff come into the home to see her and evaluate her 2 - 3X week. She wasn't taken anywhere. It was very peaceful for her that she could stay at home. They gave her pain meds etc. She didn't hold on for long once she got to that point, however she was 98 and had lived a good long life. It was her time to go and she was ready.

Our prayers are with your mom and your family.

Prayers for you and your family and any decisions you may have to make.

Prayers for all of her loved ones. Tough time for sure.

Tears came as I read. Prayers for comfort to all.

Sorry to hear. Prayers

So sorry to hear. Prayers sent for yall.

So sorry , but you have made the right decision..

Very tough time for you and all her loved ones, I went through it with my mom. Praying for peace for you all.

Went thru it with a uncle back in 2005.even though he didn't have anything written down we knew how he felt about it. It was still hard for his 2 daughters and me to tell the doctors what he would of wanted.when I got got back from the hospital I went straight to my parents house and told them I know how you both feel about being on life support.but put it in writing so everyone knows.they did and it's on file at the hospital they use.

The hospice nurses and aides my dad had were extremely knowledgeable and knew exactly what he needed and made his last days comfortable. They were a God send!

Lost my mom to cancer back in Dec. of 2000. Hospice was wonderful. Very sorry to hear about your mom.

Prayers to you, your family, and your mother.

My mom passed two years ago today. God bless you and your family in the comjng weeks

Prayed.

I lost mine as well in 2000. I can't say enough about hospice, those people were truly angels.

God Bless

Prayer sent for your family. I've been where you are, toughest decision ever made, nearly torn our family apart. Can't say enough good for the angels that supported our mother, but also our entire family.

sending prayers for you and your family

Mike, prayers for you and your family. My wife's brother was just sent home in hospice care. His sons and daughters are coming in to say their final goodbys.

Sorry to see this...thoughts and prayers to you.

Very sorry you have to go through this. Prayers sent.

Sorry to here Mike
I know how important family is to you.
God Bless

My Mom went last year... Hard but She didn't need another day here

Prayers

Sorry to hear. Prayers for you and the family.
God Bless all of you.

Prayers out, Mike